Lisa @ School Family
Sometimes I think that the transition to adolescence is harder on the parent than it is on their child. You go from them telling you everything to next nothing. It helps me a bit to know that it's normal. It sounds like your daughter is on a good track. That is not to say that you don't want to have an open line of communication. Here is an article that offers some good tips.
I also think that timing is everything. If you fire questions at them when they just walk in the door or when they are tired or hungry, forget it! I find that I get the most information on weekends during down time... I just have to be patient. Is there an activity that you both enjoy that you could do together? That is another good time to get kids to open up.