Amontoya12-Kindergarten can be a big adjustment. I would suggest working on his confidence at home. Perhaps you can work on a project that he enjoys with him over the weekend and point out all the things he is doing well. The "I can't do it" doesn't mean that he is lazy... it means he is afraid to take risks or concerned he'll be wrong. Your job is to give him a safe environment to take risks and help him understand that everyone makes mistakes. To help in the social department try setting up a playdate with a classmate. You could email the teacher and see who she thinks he would connect with.