It’s like entering a new world full of unfamiliar adults, kids, rules and surroundings. Here are some ways to make the transition easier:

  • Visit the school ahead of time. Show your child around and introduce him to his teacher, if possible.

  • Read books about school. Ask your librarian to recommend some that are comforting.

  • Describe your first day of school. If you were afraid, remind your child that this feeling didn’t last long.

  • Watch older kids get on the school bus. Point out those who are laughing and having fun.

  • Talk about the neat things to do at school, such as listening to stories and playing games.

  • Meet children who will be in your child’s class. The school may be able to help with this.

  • Do something special on the first day of school, such as letting your child wear a new outfit.

  • Be encouraging. Don’t say things like, “I’m so sad. I wish you were staying home!”

  • If necessary, stay with your child briefly at school. Or leave him at school for a short time, then gradually increase how long he’s there.

  • After school, ask about your child’s day. Show how excited and interested you are.

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