Honestly mine is too young(3) for my advise to be beneficial for you in regards to the child, and his iep is in Speach. But we did move from VA to IL in nov last year. The best advice I can say that truly helped me is, stay calm and positively supportive yourself, because when my son sensed I was stressed over the school and Speach therapists or pre-K teachers he became even more difficult to understand and or get to try to repeat or pronounce things correctly, let alone the behavioral issues that would arise. But like I said the age difference is so large between our kids Im not sure what else I did that could help you. I do feel for you though, moving with an iep is hard, I love hearing about other parents that care and take interest in their children's lives! Awesome that you are there for her and not just thowing her in to cope on her own!