We just had our PT conference for our 2nd son. It would seem that his teacher did nothing to prepare-- didn't have any work to show us, except for something that hung on the wall, didn't show us any testing milestones that she did - NOTHING - -just said he was a good kid and he's doing great. We had to ask all the questions and even then she was like - you have nothing to worry about. DOn't get me wrong I am glad that he is doing well but I feel like if she did that little to prepare for our conference - what is she doing in the classroom. Any advice?
Question: Parent teacher conference- teacher seemed to wing it!
We just had our PT conference for our 2nd son. It would seem that his teacher did nothing to prepare-- didn't have any work to show us, except for something that hung on the wall, didn't show us any testing milestones that she did - NOTHING - -just said he was a good kid and he's doing great. We had to ask all the questions and even then she was like - you have nothing to worry about. DOn't get me wrong I am glad that he is doing well but I feel like if she did that little to prepare for our conference - what is she doing in the classroom. Any advice?
cmccarthy writes: Dear LizJ,
As a first grade teacher I find this situation very unusual. Most teachers are very well prepared for conferences, and are required to have documentation to support their opinions. You have every right to confront the teacher and ask to see samples of your son's work. If the teacher does not honor your request, then you also have every right to bring your concerns to the principal.
-Connie
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Emily writes: I was just wondering if this was your first parent-teacher conference at this school, or if you've had them with other teachers. If you've had sessions with other teachers, how did the level of detail this teacher gave you compare? Maybe the teacher spent most of her prep time focusing on students who need improvement. Still, I wouldn't be afraid to tell the teacher that you're used to getting more detailed information in these meetings, even if your child is doing well.
