Parents Can Help Prevent Bullying

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These tips can help:

Build your child’s self-respect. Teach him that he is strong and worthwhile. His rights and opinions count.

Identify supportive people. Tell your child where to get help, such as from parents, teachers, or other trusted adults.

Role-play tough situations. Practice using different ways to deal with bullies—discussion, jokes, ignoring, and leaving.

Encourage friendships. Give your child opportunities to socialize with like-minded kids. Joining a club or team may help.

Stay involved. Know what’s happening at school and with friends.

To prevent bullying behavior:

Set an example. Be caring and nonaggressive. When angry, act calm.
Pay attention. Notice how your child behaves. Address problems immediately.
Provide outlets. Channel high energy into sports and other activities.
Monitor influences. Don’t let your child see violence on TV or elsewhere.
Discipline well. Enforce sensible limits without fail.
Encourage values. Say “Treat others as you want to be treated.”
Seek advice. If you’re worried that your child might bully, talk with a professional.

family counseling says: Apr. 29, 2013: Studies have shown that most of those who bully others have either personality disorders or have experienced other forms of bullying usually by a grown-up. They eventually end up bullying younger kids as an outlet for whatever troubles they are experiencing. With this, I do believe that proper parental guidance is really crucial for a child to grow up with values and concern for others. Thank you for this post.

Ellenasmith says: Jan. 08, 2012: Parents can be a child’s best ally when it comes to helping the child stand up to bullying. One of the best things a parent can do is to take time on a daily basis to talk to their child. Children who know their parents support them are more likely to come to the parent for help in difficult situations. Parents can also support their child by role playing to help them practice what to say in difficult situations and encouraging them to talk to their friends. I was scanning through a few blogs and found this article on a Safety Service for my children. It seemed interesting so I checked it out on Facebook and actually got 15 days free. Here's the article: http://anationofmoms.com/2011/08/protect-your-family-giveaway.html

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